A blissful time in
Isolation
Rajesh Bhola
COVID 19 has thrown all of us worldwide
into mandatory isolation or unsocializing.
But this isolation can be
blissful for the humanity as an
opportunity is given to all of us to stop
and look at our inward dynamics - our
relationship with our true selves.
As human being we take up many movements
which are inward, in deeper relationship with our
true selves, outward, in loving relationship with
others, and upward, in prayerful connection with
the higher force. In each of these areas of the life,
our relationships with ourselves, with others and
with the higher force generate tension, and we
move back and forth on a continuum. We do not
always feel the same sense of connection to
ourselves, to others, to the higher force.
Every person needs time alone, whether they are
introverted or extroverted, single or in a
relationship, young or old. Social isolation is
time for rejuvenation and a talk with self, for utter
peace and for realizing that isolation is not a
bad place to be but rather, a liberating part of
your overall existence. If you are a creative person,
you may find that alone-time will help stoke your
creativity. While it is nice to collaborate with other
people, it is hard to be truly creative when you
are always surrounded by other people. Step
back and tap into your creativity.
We can notice the feelings of
desperation and desire that we
experience at various times.
Instead of trying to suppress or run
from those feelings, get motivated
in isolation and silence. This is the
time to incorporate silence and
solitude into life regularly; the time
to pray for the wisdom we need to
recognize when we all have
become dangerously tired –
exhausted by life's demands, to the
point where you cannot hear His
voice speaking to us.
To remain in isolation is a
spiritual discipline, and we all have
to work hard to be sure we are
getting that alone time.
The
movement from socializing to isolation involves
accepting a degree of separateness, aloneness, as
a human reality. If we are uncomfortable, or
unwilling to be alone with ourselves, then we may
never actually discover who we really are. We may
never see ourselves the way higher self sees us.
If
we never come to know ourselves we may
continue to crave the distractions of the world
Instead of running away from our isolation to
which we all are voluntarily or involuntarily
confined now, we need to turn it into fruitful
solitude. To live a spiritual life we must first find
the courage to enter into the desert of our
isolation and to change it by gentle and persistent
efforts into a garden of solitude. This requires not
only courage but also a strong faith. As hard as it is
to believe that the dry desolate desert can yield
endless varieties of flowers, it is equally hard to
imagine that in our isolation and solitude is hiding
unknown beauty.
The movement from socializing to solitude is the
movement from the restless senses to the restful
spirit, from the outward-reaching cravings to the
inward-reaching search, from the fearful clinging
to the fearless play. We should seek to simplify
existence, to cut down our wants and to diminish
our cares, that more time and energy may be
found for divinely-lived isolation.