Remembering Gemini Ganesan
Humra Quraishi
Eternal Romantic:
My Father, Gemini Ganesan
On the late Tamil super star
Gemini Ganesan’s birthday -
November 17 – I read, rather reread,
his daughter Narayani Ganesh’s
book on him. After all, ‘Eternal
Romantic- My Father , Gemini
Ganesan (Roli Books) focuses on not
just those lesser known personal
aspects to him but also captures that
entire era, and connects you to Tamil
Nadu and those offshoots, in the form
of the various locales and institutions
he was connected to.
After all , Gemini Ganesan spent
his formative years in the royal
principality of Pudukottai in Tamil Nadu,
followed by the year he spent at the
Ramakrishna Mission Home in Chennai,
where he learnt yoga and attended
vedanta classes and then his years at
the Madras Christian College, Chennai
,and of course, his years in the world of
cinema.
Perhaps, he was far ahead of his
times. That explains why he was candid
about his relationships. Film stars
Pushpavalli and Savithri were not
pushed into some background but
were there on the scene , as his
partners .He married them. He had
children with them. And the absolutely
amazing aspect is that his first wife -
TR Alamelu , popularly called
Bobjima - apparently comfortable with
Pushpavalli and Savithri … Not just
that, but children born from that
wedlock - of Gemini Ganesan with
Bobjima - seemed to bond rather well
with their half - sisters. One of them is
film star Rekha.
And as I read and re-read
thisvolume one aspect loomed large.
The sheer grit of Bobjima. She comes
across as a woman who was truly in
love with her husband , Gemini
Ganesan .And with that she was with
him right till the end. In fact , its
Bobjima who comes across as the real heroine in the life and times of
Gemini Ganesan.
Of course, Gemini Ganesan carried
an intense personality. As his journalist -writer daughter Narayani Ganesh
(born from his first wife Bobjima)
elaborates, “When I think of Appa the
words that spring to mind are charming,
handsome, affectionate, witty,
responsible and compassionate.
He
was an interesting person … because
his interests went far beyond cinema
…As a dashing romantic actor, Appa did
have relationships outside his marriage,
but his relationship with us remained
the same. He was the same caring
father, son and nephew but of course, I
would not be able to say what went
through my mother's mind. Because
children were not part of their private
discussions (if they had any) and my
grandmothers were so benign and full
of love -- for Appa and for all of us, so
there was no question of ugly fights or
hurling of accusations and that
sort of thing. I would say that we all had
a great deal of respect for him and for each other…” Elaborating still further,
“As an actor, Appa’s USP was that he
had a way with women; he oozed
charm and with his candy –box
good looks, wide –eyed innocence and
gentle ways, he won over the hearts of
more than a generation of fans .
For
them ,he was the eternal romantic
hero.”
Narayani has been candid and she
has webbed in several touching
incidents in this book. “At Presentation
Convent, Madras, where I studied a girl
struck up a conversation with me after
school one day. I must have been nine
or ten years old. ‘Why do you and your
sister go home in different cars ?’ she
asked .I was puzzled .My two older
sisters had finished school.
My younger sister was still a baby.
‘Come I will take you to her’, she said
holding my hand and leading the way. I
met Rekha for the first time. She was
pretty and her eyes were lined by
mascara. She said her name was
Bhanurekha. ‘What is your father’s
name?’ I asked. ‘Gemini Ganesan’
came the pat reply. My eyes were filled
with tears. How can that be? He was my
father…
When Chinamma came to take
me home I blurted out the story.
‘Never mind’ ,she said .Another day I
pointed out Rekhato Chinamma and
she said , ‘She is like your sister .And
she’s pretty.’
Then, there was Rekha’s younger
sister, Radha , who was even prettier, I
thought. Her resemblance to Appa was
startling. When I was a little older I
leant that they were born to
Pushpavalli and Appa ,and that they
lived with their mother and other
siblings too.”
The forte of this volume is that
personal narrations lie webbed and
inter -webbed. And ,mind you , not in
some of those superficial ways .On the contrary , they add to the context and
to the very flow . In fact, the very
introduction introduces the reader to
the bare fact that Gemini Ganesan
was a very caring father … was
particular about his children’s teeth
and their upkeep .The opening lines in
the very introduction are this -“ One of
the earliest memories I have of my
father is of him asking me to show him
my teeth . I was growing permanent
teeth and he would inspect them
regularly …horrified that my two front
upper teeth were parting
ways,leading an A - shaped passage
behind , he whisked me off to the
dentist.”
Also, what can be termed as
another of those off beats is the fact
that Gemini Ganesan had scholarly
bent of mind . Writ large by his letters
and even poetic verse which he’d
written to his children. Or as actor
Kamaal Hasan, who had worked as a
child star in his movies, writes in the
foreword - “Gemini mama (uncle ) was
larger than life ;there was so much
more to him than his screen persona.
If he hadn’t been an actor, he might
have retired as an academic, with
teaching stints in , who knows,
Pudukkottai , Chennai , Delhi , U.K ,
U.S.A.”
On rebel poet, Habib Jalib
Habib Jalib
Last month’s news reports of poet
Habib Jalib’s daughter driving a taxi in
Lahore to keep home fires burning
caught attention …well, to such an
extent that I sat reading details to this
rebel poet’s struggles and his
determination to write against the
dictatorial regimes in Pakistan.
Though
he was imprisoned by the State for
preaching sedition and his collection of
poems - Sar-i- Maqtal confiscated but
he wasn’t the one to give up. He had
continued writing with that rebellious
strain intact. Surviving in tough
conditions. Dying in 1993.
Though he was born in Hoshiarpur
(East Punjab) and
educated at
Delhi’s Anglo
Arabic School but
soon after the
Partition he
shifted to
Pakistan in 1947.
And he lived his
adult years in
Lahore.
Leaving you with Habib Jalib’s verse,
from Khushwant Singh’s volume –
Celebrating The Best of Urdu Poetry
(Penguin) Crime/
‘Why did you allow yourself to be
killed?’/
Is the charge for which I am billed./
Now lawyers are arguing amongst
themselves;/
‘This small trouble that the killer had
to take,/
This little dent that this dagger
suffered,/
Who should be made to compensate?’
And also this verse –
The Illusion of Being God -
The one before you who sat on this
very throne/
He was equally convinced he was
God.
This political mania !
I do realize I’m not being very
original in stating that the political
pollution together with the
environmental pollution is killing us.
Though a hue and cry is raised every
now and then about the environment
turning poisonous but what are we
doing to the political chaos worsening
by the day!
Surprisingly or not really, even
those politicians whose names have
been linked to criminal and
communal activities and utterings are
going about scot free. And why no
politician’s name figured in the #Me
Too campaign! Perhaps, the fear
factor holds sway. Not to be
overlooked the fact that several of the
political who’s who of the day have
nurtured their own private brigades
to kill and hound and threaten!
Alas, they cannot wipe away
images linked to their activities.
In
fact, as soon as the news of N.D
Tewari’s demise came, the image that
hit was linked to his days as governor
of Andhra Pradesh. What, with he
sprawled on the double bed with
three women! All these activities in
the confines of the governor house!
Yet he continued to remain one of the
leaders!
Adding to the political pollution
the rulers of the day are goingabout
hacking names our cities and villages
and roads! Plucking off the traditional
names. Planting new names to
further the chaos unleashed by third
-class governance tactics.
Re-naming Allahabad to Prayagraj
could just be the start. And if these
politicians have their way they would
want the name of Ahmedabad to be
changed to Karnavati, Bhopal to
Bhojpal, Aurangabad to Sambhaji
Nagar, Patna to Patliputra,
Hyderabad to Bhagyanagar,
Goa to Govapuri, Kerala to
Keralam , Nagaland to Naganchi…
This political mania to change names
should be halted right now, before
we reach the dead end, before we are
at a loss to figure out just about
where we are!