A lady to remember !
Always meticulously attired and
ever ready to host,Vidya’d
small rented accommodation
bore the value of a palace. She
expressed all the warmth on
arrival at Delhi, where she was
denied the similar concern when she came
to Lucknow seeking blessings of my mother,
the senior-most lady. She treated all guests
with utmost care and warmth. She was
instrumental for Delhi growing on me
quickly. The beauty was that she showed
the same ready smile to my friends.
Vidya,82, died on August 25 at Mumbai.
She had a fall. She developed nose
infection.
Nine ‘Ratnas’, including R.V.Kripalani,
S.K.Verma, L.K.Tewari, and I had resigned in protest against
news editor C.Baptista, National Herald on one Sunday. The
editor, MC Chellapathi Rau was shocked at my signature.
“Look this, Wadhwaney was invited me for lunch still he had
joined a group, like a member of trade-union. “I must accept
his resignation first”. Eight got jobs in Delhi within a week but
I had to wait for about nine months when luck smiled.
The new editor of Indian Express, editor, Prem Bhatia had
a brief session with news editor, Piloo Saxena, and
summoned sports editor, Vernon Ram. “Your column is ok
but there is no culture for a photo yet. You have to drop it”.
“What”? It cannot be complied with. The paper is sold
because of of sports page and my column with photo are
essential. ”.
“Whatever, the photo has to be dropped”, Bhatia insisted.
“I will resign” said Veron. “you are welcome” , Bhatia
declared. “My staff will walk out
with me”, Vernon said in anger. “That is also
welcome”, said Bhatia.
The sports desk was ‘Khali” for one night.
Piloo brought out the page.
CSA Swami (1936 Berlin marathoner—he
was last to arrive after Hitler had left) flew
from Bombay. I came from Lucknow and
was appointed as sports reporter by him.
Ron Hendricks flew from Bombay to take
over as sports editor.
After about a week, Vidya gave me keys
of a house in for my stay. As I was alone, I,
invited Ron to stay with me. I had not
briefed Vidya about this. Now an ugly
incident took place. I was in Lucknow for
hockey, when Ron, high on spirits, could
enter the house but he could not locate the
room key. His noise woke up neighbours.
All assembled. He was unaware who was the occupant. He
was man-handled. He was landed at police station. He
‘recovered’ and explained who he was and returned home.
The 23 customs officers lodged a joint complaint against
Vidya for misuse of the flat. It was a fight between Vidya and
locals. The officers made many vulgar accusations. Her salary
was withheld. For 12 months. During this rough time, Vidya
did not express her anguish. She wore the same smile.
K.C.Pant, Customs minister, was a good friend at
Lucknow. He came to our rescue. He expunged the letter
and released the salary.
This was Vidya’s grace, disposition and impeccable
manners. Since she was not doing duty at airport, she
voluntarily surrendered the INA colony flat.
Vidya was extremely professional in her
duties at airport.
Dr. S.S. Sidhu
Noted civil servant Dr. Shivinder
Singh Sidhu is no more. He was
unquestionably one of the most
successful and popular Indian
Administrative Services (IAS) officers
in the history of the cadre. He was
sober, serene and safety personified.
He had developed an art of ‘how to
influence people and win friends’.
He wore many hats and all fitted
him quietly-- from an administrative serivce to political field. He became
governor of Goa, to Manipur and
Meghalaya.
His international tenure
was long, enduring and meaningful.
He was the ‘country’s ‘banyan’ tree
for ‘tourism’. He died on November
3, 2018. Kirtan and ardas were
performed at Defence Colony,
Gurdwara. Guru ka Langar was
largely attended.
-- K R Wadhwaney